Joshua Cheresnick, Support and Growth Specialist, NXL

Father’s Day is a time to recognize the men who show up, steadfast, present, and often quietly shaping the lives of their children in ways that last for generations. While conversations around pregnancy and parenting often center on mothers, this day offers an opportunity to reflect on the role fathers play in building strong families and supporting life.

Every pregnancy involves more than one person’s experience. Fathers are not bystanders in these moments; they are participants who influence outcomes and, when supported, become advocates for both mother and child.

The Impact of the Engaged Father

Research consistently shows that children with engaged fathers tend to fare better emotionally, academically, and socially. A father’s presence can provide stability, encouragement, and a stronger sense of identity. Beyond the data, there is something deeply human about a man choosing to step in, learn, and grow, especially in circumstances that are unexpected or uncertain.

For many men, an unplanned pregnancy can bring fear, confusion, and uncertainty about what comes next. Without support or guidance, it can feel easier to withdraw than to engage. This is where pregnancy help organizations play a critical role–not only for mothers, but for fathers as well–creating space for men to ask questions, find support, and understand their role from the beginning.

Meeting Fathers Where They Are

There is a growing recognition that engaging fathers is essential. When fathers are welcomed, heard, and equipped, the impact extends far beyond a single interaction.

This can include:

• Creating space for fathers in appointments and conversations
• Offering mentorship or fatherhood programs
• Providing practical resources and education
• Communicating their value and role in the process

Sometimes, what a father needs most is simple: someone who believes he can rise to the moment.

Redefining Strength

Cultural narratives around fatherhood can be mixed. Strength is often associated with independence or emotional distance. Yet real strength is found in presence, humility, and commitment.

• Strength is the father who chooses to stay.
• The father who learns, even when he feels unprepared.
• The father who supports the mother of his child with respect and care.
• The father who grows into his role over time.

These are men worth recognizing.

A Call to Encourage and Equip

This Father’s Day, pregnancy help organizations are encouraged to intentionally recognize and engage the fathers in their communities. A word of encouragement, a simple invitation, or a program designed for dads can open the door to meaningful change—not only for one man, but for an entire family.

Let’s continue building environments where fathers are not overlooked, but supported; not sidelined, but equipped. Where men facing fatherhood–planned or unplanned–know they are not alone.

When fathers are empowered, families are strengthened, and lives are forever changed.